A Private Affair

Red Dress
Party

One colour. One night. Every state we usually keep to ourselves.

Kyiv · Podil
Aug 1 · Saturday · preliminary date
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This isn’t a party. It’s a stage.

A private event in Kyiv for those curious how an evening looks when everyone has agreed to be themselves. One dress code — a red dress. For everyone: women and men alike. The permission — to allow yourself everything.

Invitation

We invite you to dive into the depths of temptation and honesty with yourself. Open up to a new experience — allow yourself the courage to be different.

This is not just a party. It’s the perfect chance to make a statement and to live those tempting moments we usually don’t allow ourselves. A unique space of possibility and openness, of desires and fantasies realised. A space of freedom with beautiful rules.

To find the courage to be bright, alluring and provocative. To become part of a celebration of Life — and to remind yourself how important it is to step out of your usual shell and embrace your many sides.

Let’s grow bolder together — and dive into the atmosphere of the red colour of passion.

Who it’s for

Different lives, different languages, different reasons to come. The only thing shared — the dress, and the permission to be yourself for this one night.

01

The heroine of her own novel

“I live in a way that makes you want to film a movie about me.”

Aesthetics over function. They pay for an experience, not for a night out.

02

The creative class and entrepreneurs

“A place to relax and finally meet the people who get it.”

Founders, producers, creative directors. No corporate vibe — the format is honest and tasteful.

03

Bold men

“I’ve always wanted to try something unconventional in what I wear — this is a chance with a frame around it.”

Men from creative fields. A safe space to experiment with your look — no judgement, full support.

04

Expats and the fashion community

“Tell me there is a real party in Kyiv tonight.”

Journalists, models, stylists, creators. The Kyiv worth posting in a story back home.

You don’t need to be a model, an extrovert or “perfectly fearless”. Curiosity and a readiness to respect others’ boundaries are enough.

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What awaits you

01 / Tone

Sensual · sensitive · temptation · depth · sincere

An evening about states we rarely enter, yet wish we could more often. The perfect chance to make a statement — and to live those tempting moments we usually don’t allow ourselves.

02 / Aesthetic

Red Dress ONLY

A red dress — for women and for men. That single rule becomes the central piece of the composition. Red in frame — Caravaggio and Almodóvar at once.

03 / Freedom

A space of freedom

A space of possibility and openness, of desires and fantasies realised. Freedom with aesthetic rules that help you reveal your facets.

Flow of the evening

The event has a guided flow, without chaos. Each stage is about a different depth of contact.

18:00 — 18:45

Arrival

Welcome drink, first faces, first toasts. Time to exhale after the road and look around without rushing.

18:45 — 19:15

Ice-breakers

Gentle facilitation of introductions. Small rituals and little handmade things that take the first step for you — we keep the details for the night itself.

19:15 — 20:00

Contact practices

Eye to eye, without words. A few facts about yourself in threes. Nothing that would make you feel ashamed — only what brings attention back to the body and the moment.

Participation is voluntary. You can skip any exercise.

20:00 — 21:00

The peak

Dancing, an open vibe. The night we’re all here for.

21:00 →

Free format

Stay as long as you like. Leave whenever you want. No ceremonial goodbyes.

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Principles of the evening

01

Red dresses only.

02

Respect for boundaries.

03

Sensual space.

04

Guest pre-screening.

Participation

Preliminary date — Aug 1, Saturday. Think intimate private event, not a mass party.

01 / Cost

Shared after you apply

We share the details of participation in correspondence after your invitation is confirmed. Think intimate private event, not a mass party.

02 / What’s included

Welcome drink · programme · facilitation · photos

Participation includes a welcome drink, the evening’s programme, facilitation and the work of an invited photographer.

03 / Boundaries & safety

Only by mutual consent

There are no mandatory physical practices at the event. At any moment you can say “no”, leave an exercise or simply observe. Contact — only by mutual consent. The facilitator holds the atmosphere, the boundaries and the pace of the evening. Photos — only with respect for guests’ privacy.

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Stylist & Designer · Optional

If the only red in your wardrobe is a hot, passionate heart.

At the event there’s help from a stylist and costume designer within the theme. As an optional extra — a small capsule of dresses and skirts by Maria Kulieva, available to guests a week before the event. Not at the door, not at the last minute — so that everyone finds their own.

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This party isn’t only about actions.
It’s about states we enter very rarely,
yet wish we could more often.

Questions & answers

Who can come?
The event is by invitation. We’re careful about the atmosphere — and invite people who share the aesthetic and values of the evening. You can leave a request in the co-authors’ Telegram.
What does the Red Dress code mean?
A red dress — for everyone. Women and men alike. It’s the central condition of the evening’s composition. If you don’t have red in your wardrobe yet — there’s help from a stylist and a small capsule by Maria Kulieva a week before the event.
Can I come without a partner?
Yes, absolutely. Many guests come on their own — the format includes introduction rituals that help you enter the shared space without tension.
How much does participation cost?
We share the details of participation in correspondence after your invitation is confirmed. This is how we keep the event intimate.
Where exactly will it take place?
Podil, Kyiv. We send the exact address to confirmed guests the day before the event.
What about photo and video?
An invited photographer works at the event — all guests receive the shots. Personal smartphone photography is agreed upon on the principle of respecting others’ boundaries.
What age?
An adults-only event — 18+. This is essential for the evening’s atmosphere of trust and openness.
Can an introvert come?
Yes. The whole programme is built to enter contact gradually and without pressure. You can observe, skip any exercise and move at your own comfortable pace.
What does pre-screening mean?
Before confirming an invitation we get to know each guest briefly. It’s not an interview — rather a way to preserve the intimate atmosphere and shared values of the evening.
Can I leave earlier?
Yes. After 21:00 it’s free format: stay as long as you like, leave whenever you want, no ceremonial goodbyes.
What if I don’t know anyone?
That’s normal, even typical. The format includes introduction rituals and gentle facilitation — most guests come on their own.
Ask your own question

If you feel this event is about you.

It’s time.

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Team

Two people who love red dresses — and decided to put together a night where you, too, can allow yourself in red.

Project co-author

Artem Bilodid

The idea behind the evening, a fan of the RDP format and of dresses, and the maker of this site.

Project co-author

Maria Kulieva

Stylist and clothing designer, choosing the dress for the evening. Experience organising similar events and fashion shows.

Join the project

We’re looking for like-minded people for the evening’s team. If one of the roles below resonates — write to us and we’ll share the details.

01 / Role

Photographer

Documentary-style coverage of the evening. Red, movement, faces, atmosphere. A style close to cinematic.

02 / Role

SMM

Running the project’s Instagram and Telegram. Tone, visuals, announcements, community. A love of aesthetics is essential.

03 / Role

Makeup artist

Working with guests before the event or on site. Expressive but not theatrical makeup — in tune with the evening.

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